We have all heard the old sayings such as ‘Beauty is in the eye of the beholder’; beauty is only skin deep’; ‘beauty is on the inside’. Whatever. At the end of the day, we as a society are obsessed with physical beauty. It used to just be women applying make up in the bathroom. Now some guys will not venture out of the house without their eyeliner and mascara. Being beautiful is so important to us.
So, how can you stay beautiful all day long? Sure, there are beauty products we can apply throughout the day to look good. But I believe from the bottom of my heart that beauty shines through the eyes. If you have spent a lot of money on physical appearance and are a rotten person, people will notice. Maybe at first they will be attracted by your physical looks. But once they get to know you, they will come to realize that your are below all the gloss an ugly person if you do not treat others correctly.
It is far more important to concentrate on our inner beauty all day long. To bite your tongue when you are angry and wish to lash out at someone. When you are tired and cannot be bothered to be nice to others. When someone has behaved abysmally and you want to retaliate. It is hard, but with practice we can become beautiful people. Initially people will be magnetized by the appearance of a beauty on the outside. But for a lasting relationship, you have to look for inner beauty.
I always believe that you should behave as if you are meeting a new woman you really fancy. You try to impress her with your outstanding behavior, attentiveness, gentlemanly actions, caring attitude, the way you listen to everything she says. Why not treat everybody the same way? Make them feel important and interesting to you. That way you are being beautiful. So, you want to look your best. That is not difficult today with all the products on the market. But never forget that being beautiful is a state of how you are – not a transient. physical thing.
I have dated many women in my time who would consider themselves a great catch because they conform to how society perceives beauty. But many of them – not all – are self-obsessed and have no idea how to communicate. Their only topic is ‘me’. I have always grown tired of them – just as they have probably grown tired of my lack of interest in them!
So, how can you stay beautiful all day long? Sure, there are beauty products we can apply throughout the day to look good. But I believe from the bottom of my heart that beauty shines through the eyes. If you have spent a lot of money on physical appearance and are a rotten person, people will notice. Maybe at first they will be attracted by your physical looks. But once they get to know you, they will come to realize that your are below all the gloss an ugly person if you do not treat others correctly.
It is far more important to concentrate on our inner beauty all day long. To bite your tongue when you are angry and wish to lash out at someone. When you are tired and cannot be bothered to be nice to others. When someone has behaved abysmally and you want to retaliate. It is hard, but with practice we can become beautiful people. Initially people will be magnetized by the appearance of a beauty on the outside. But for a lasting relationship, you have to look for inner beauty.
I always believe that you should behave as if you are meeting a new woman you really fancy. You try to impress her with your outstanding behavior, attentiveness, gentlemanly actions, caring attitude, the way you listen to everything she says. Why not treat everybody the same way? Make them feel important and interesting to you. That way you are being beautiful. So, you want to look your best. That is not difficult today with all the products on the market. But never forget that being beautiful is a state of how you are – not a transient. physical thing.
I have dated many women in my time who would consider themselves a great catch because they conform to how society perceives beauty. But many of them – not all – are self-obsessed and have no idea how to communicate. Their only topic is ‘me’. I have always grown tired of them – just as they have probably grown tired of my lack of interest in them!
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